Saturday

How to Reclaim Your Privacy on Facebook

Facebook is a great tool for RVers and really all of us who want to connect with friends and share our experiences, travels, photos and life stories.  But lately the topic of privacy, or the lack of it, on facebook and other social media sites has caused quite a stir.  I decided to post this information since I see several posts a day that suggest an incorrect way to keep your privacy on Facebook  You probably seen it too.  Many of our Hidden Valley Facebook fans have even asked about it.  The Facebook post goes something like this:
Hello to all of you who are on my list of contacts of Facebook. I would like to ask a favor of you…. You may not know that Facebook has changed its privacy configuration once again. Thanks to the new “Graphic app”, any person on FB anywhere in the world can see our photos, our “likes” and our “comments”. During the next two weeks, I am going to keep this message posted and I ask you to do the following and comment “DONE”. Those of my friends who do not maintain my information in private will be eliminated from my list of friends, because I want the information I share with you, my friends, to remain among my friends and not be available to the whole world. I want to be able to publish photos of my friends and family without strangers being able to see them, which is what happens now when you choose “like” or “comment”. Unfortunately we cannot change this configuration because FB has made it like this.
1. So, please, place your cursor over my photo that appears in this box (without clicking) and a window will open.
2. Now move the cursor to the word “Friends”, again without clicking and then click on “Settings”.
3. Un-check “Life Events” and “Comments and Like”. This way my activity with my family and friends will no longer be made public.
4. Now, copy and paste this text on your own wall (do not “share” it!). Once I see it published on your page, I will un-check the same.
The ONLY true part of this whole post is that FB DOES have a fairly new function called "graph search." You may be familiar with the site called Snopes that examines many commonly reported stories and after research, reports if they are truth or myth.  They have also affirmed that this story about facebook is not true.  You can read their research here.

"Graph search" does NOT make your likes, comments or photos be seen by people all over the world.  Your photos can only be seen by those you chose.  For many, fixing these privacy settings is 2nd nature but for the rest of us, this is an easy, step by step "how to" to set your privacy the way YOU want it on Facebook.  Note: click on any of the screen shot photos below to see a larger version.

Status Updates or Posts

Screen Print of a Status Posting Box
Status or posting box

Note in the box above there arrow pointing out the drop down arrow.  This same drop down arrow appears on the photo screen (note below.)

Photo Posts

how to choose who sees your posts

 When you click on either the posting or photo screen on this drop down arrow you see the option box shown above.  By default it is set on public.  You may change it so that your post or photo is seem only by your "friends," by only yourself or if you click "custom" you can put specific friends in the box.  In this way you are limiting all your posts to your desired setting.  This setting can be changed for each status update or photo you post. 

However, if you direct people to un-click the options when they hover their cursor over "friends" on your profile picture, your photos and posts will not be seen by them.  In effect, they are telling facebook they don't want to see any of the options that are unchecked.

Privacy Settings

There is one way that unwanted persons can see photos of you.  If a friend posts a photos of you and has it set to "public," or if someone "tags" you in a photo that you posted just to friends.  There are a few ways to prevent this most of the time.  On the top right on your facebook page there is a little gear symbol.  (see below.)
How to access and change your privacy settings
Access privacy settings here
Once you click on the gear you can change your privacy settings, who is allowed to post on your timeline, if you will allow others to tag you in photos, etc.  You can even block individuals who show up on your newsfeed whose posts you find offensive for one reason or another.  Even if someone is not your friend you may still see their posts if they are a friend of a friend.  Sometimes you may want to block one of these.  Remember you can also "un-friend" someone at any time.  They are NOT notified that you have done so.  They may notice it if they look at your timeline or hover over your name and see "Add Friend" instead of friend.  Play around with these settings and see which fit you best.  

I'm not a professional facebook guru but since I'm interested in keeping what I want private...private, while sharing the rest with the world - I try to keep abreast of all the changes and myths that circulate about facebook and other social media sites.  If you have any questions that I didn't address on this topic or something still doesn't seem clear I welcome your questions in the comments below.  I will reply with an answer and edit this article to explain it more clearly.  See you on Facebook!

Teri Blaschke is the RV Park operator of family owned HiddenValley RV Park in San Antonio, TX and writer of the park blog “A Little Piece of Country in San Antonio.” Teri contributes to various other blogs with a focus on either travel or social media and how it relates to the outdoor hospitality industry but her passion is serving the RV travel community by providing a memorable RV camping experience and growing the Hidden Valley RV family.  Connect with , Facebook, Pinterest and Twitter@HiddenValleyRV and our RV Country Daily Magazine and don't forget to Say hello to the voice of Hidden Valley 




Friday

33 Ways to Stay Creative

No matter whether we are lawyers, authors, homemakers, artists or retired full or part time RV travelers, keeping creativity in our lives is a challenge.  Many find creativity in writing, painting or even gardening but what if you just don't feel like being creative?  How can you get that spark back or fire it up a notch?
33 ways to stay creative, word cloud

You may have seen this list, it's been passed around the internet more than a few times but I really like it because it doesn't really address the creative possibilities we have but rather ways to inspire our creative juices no matter what niche we are in.  The best thing about lists is that you can scratch out what doesn't apply to you and add personal thoughts that fit your style or wishes.  For example: don't know about you but #8, "singing in the shower" would have NOTHING to do with me getting a creative fire burning but I might add in it's place...read a novel or view a tutorial or search through Pinterest Boards.

I also love this list because of points like #5, "be other worldly" and #24 "break the rules."  Both points could mean many different things to each individual.  Other worldly: as in India, Africa OR as in the inner world of say an autistic friend or the inner musings in the mind of your grandson?  Break the rules: as in the laws of the land your living in OR your personal rules for living OR even testing out "rules" to verify their wisdom or lack of?  Actually the full time RV lifestyle is a prime example of "breaking the rules," the society's rule of settling down by the time you retire or living in the "sticks and bricks" house of your dreams.

This list could be called simplistic but sometimes that's what we need to expand our mold and widen out our inventiveness.  So with out further ado, here is the list.  Any ways you employ to stay creative?  Please share them with us in the comments.


33 ways to stay creative list

Teri Blaschke is the RV Park operator of family owned HiddenValley RV Park in San Antonio, TX and writer of the park blog “A Little Piece of Country in San Antonio.” Teri contributes to various other blogs with a focus on either travel or social media and how it relates to the outdoor hospitality industry but her passion is serving the RV travel community by providing a memorable RV camping experience and growing the Hidden Valley RV family.  Connect with , Facebook, Pinterest and Twitter@HiddenValleyRV and our RV Country Daily Magazine and don't forget to Say hello to the voice of Hidden Valley 


Saturday

When Red Meets Yellow...

Very few people LIKE snakes but they are a fact of life in many parts of the US, especially South and West USA.  Hidden Valley RV Park has even been graced by an occasional reptile of the long and slender type. An article in the August 2002 New England Journal of Medicine states that an estimated 2000 Americans are bitten by venomous snakes each year, but deaths from snake bite average only about five per year. Incidentally, Florida has the most cases.

Two main groups in the US, coral snakes and pit vipers.  


The Corals hail from Texas to the Carolinas with the exception of the Arizona Coral which inhabits its name state and New Mexico.  These pretty babies bite with small teeth instead of fangs.  Although there are snakes that are similarly colored, a coral can be identified by the alternating bands of red, yellow and black stripes, the red always touching the yellow.  The very similar Scarlet King Snake is nonvenomous.  The axiom "when red meets yella it's a dangerous fella," is one we've employed here at the valley.
Notices the red stripes bracketed in yellow identifying the venomous variety
Notice the Venomous version with the red bracketed between yellow


Pit Vipers include, rattlesnakes, water moccasins and copperheads and they can be found anywhere in the US.  Their name comes (I always thought it was because they liked pits) from the tiny "pit" between their eye and nostril.  The pit makes it so they can detect heat enabling them to find prey at night.  These more drab looking reptiles have retractable fangs which shoot venom into their prey or an unsuspecting human. There is the possibility of receiving what's commonly called a "dry bite" meaning one without venom.  Bites from old and small snakes have less venom.  Some have felt that venom from smaller snakes is somehow more poisonous or dangerous however recent studies have refuted that belief.
Distinguishing Marks of a Rattlesnake
Notice the "Pit" and the "Rattle"


Bites from both types can range from hurtful to debilitating to death dealing if not treated immediately.  Symptoms can range from a merely a stinging pain to inability to breath due to swelling to affecting the brain and spinal cord.

Treatment, Old and New


Over the years, methods of treatment have included tourniquets, making "X" cuts at or above the fang marks and sucking out the venom (eeww) and icing the site to slow down the venom.  These have proven highly ineffective and currently experts advise
  • washing the bite area with soap and water 
  • keeping the affected limb still and placed lower than the heart 
  • Keeping the victim calm
  • seeking medical help immediately.  

Just as with other allergic reactions the site may become swollen or bruised looking and bleeding could exist.  Even with a small amount of venom you may experience faintness or numbness of the tongue.  These are evidence of shock and need quick attention.

When you get medical attention, a doctor will use and antivenom serum that is produced by injecting a small amount of serum into an animals blood (usually a horse) which then causes their immune systems to produce antibodies to combat the venom. The antibodies are then harvested from the animal in a concentrated form so that it can act quickly to neutralize venom in a person bitten by a snake.  Many persons can have an allergic reaction to the serum itself and are usually given epinephrine to counteract the allergy.
Infographic of Snakebite Do's and Don'ts

Can Snakebite Be Prevented? How?


As with many emergencies, preparedness is the best policy.  The Center for Disease Control (and some years living in snake country myself) provides these tips for prevention whether enjoying the outdoors, boondocking, camping or hiking in the wild or even in residential areas:
  • Do not play with or aggravate snakes
  • Keep landscape clear of brush and debris
  • Wear shoes (even in your RV and house-we found a coral snake in our closet once)
  • Wear boots when walking in snake country
  • Develop a habit of watching where you step and place your hands (even/especially when gardening)
Especially are these tips essential for RVers who are involved in gateguarding since the sites are in virtual snake playgrounds.

Live and Let Live


Whereas some may go by the adage "the only good snake is a dead snake," there are at least four  reasons to just let them be.
  • They will most likely just leave YOU alone
  • Many snakes are non-poisonous and benefit society
  • Snakes prey on rodents that can be a damaging nuisance and health risk themselves
  • Snake venom, when extracted, is used for various applications including treatment of breast cancer as well as stroke victims and it can also help in heart attack treatment. Venom is also used in the medicines of blood pressure.
So, in all, snake venom is very helpful for mankind.  So think twice before hating any snake.



Teri Blaschke is the RV Park operator of family owned HiddenValley RV Park in San Antonio, TX and writer of the park blog “A Little Piece of Country in San Antonio.” Teri contributes to various other blogs with a focus on either travel or social media and how it relates to the outdoor hospitality industry but her passion is serving the RV travel community by providing a memorable RV camping experience and growing the Hidden Valley RV family.  Connect with , Facebook, Pinterest and Twitter@HiddenValleyRV and our RV Country Daily Magazine and don't forget to Say hello to the voice of Hidden Valley 


Wednesday

Are You Old Enough?



Don't Forget My Senior Discount
Most all of us are on the lookout for a bargain but especially is that true for full time RVers.  Since RV travel can be expensive, saving a few dollars here and there can help. Add to that the factor of a fixed income and these discounts can be downright handy.

We often don't like to admit to being seniors but this is one of the few advantages so, by golly, let's take advantage.  As you'll notice, many of these discounts are good beginning at age 50!  Imagine.  You're only a babe at 50.  TeeHee.

A little research turned up these discounts but I'm sure there are many more.  Always verify discounts before assuming since these establishments could change their policy at any time.  And if you visit somewhere not on the list, remember it never hurts to ask if they have a senior discount. 

Many RV Parks, (including Hidden Valley-10% off entire stay for 55+) and hotels/motels give a senior discount also.  The best time to get lodging discounts is when reserving in advance. 

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